Quotes

A personal collection of quotes that have stayed with me, gathered over the years.

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Memento mori (Latin for ‘remember that you die’).

“Suffering equals pain times resistance.”

— Shinzen Young

Watch the game, not the commentary.

— Jon Kabat-Zinn

“Unless they are paying your bills, pay them bitches no mind.”

— RuPauls’ Mum

Life is too serious to take seriously

— Unknown

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

— Eleanor Roosevelt

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When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak. — Audrey Lorde

You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way the only way …it does not exist.

— Fredrich Nietzche

What makes a successful person is not being fearless but pushing through the things that scare you the most.

Kesha

May I have the courage today to live the life I would love, to postpone my dream no longer. But do at last what I have come here for and waste my heart on fear no more.

— John O’Donohue

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You have to impose, in fact—this may sound very strange—you have to decide who you are, and force the world to deal with you, not with its idea of you. — James Baldwin (1961)

The awful thing about life is this: Everybody has their reasons.

— Rules of the Game (1939)

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Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today. — Thich Nhat Hanh

“Competence is confidence” - Be prepared

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She was like the sun, She knew her place in the world - She would shine again regardless of all the storms and changeable weather She wouldn’t adjust her purpose for things that pass. ― Nikki Rowe

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She is like a butterfly,
Beautiful to look at
But hard to catch. ― Nikki Rowe

“Don’t Rest In Peace, Live In Peace.”

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Progress means getting nearer to the place you want to be. And if you have taken a wrong turn, then to go forward does not get you any nearer. If you are on the wrong road, progress means doing an about-turn and walking back to the right road; and in that case the man who turns back soonest is the most progressive man. ― C.S. Lewis

If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.

― Not Albert Einstein

The goddess has many faces

“Decide what you want, decide what you are willing to exchange for it. Establish your priorities and go to work.”

― H. L. Hunt

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“If you put shame in a Petri dish, it needs three things to grow exponentially: secrecy, silence and judgment. If you put the same amount of shame in a Petri dish and douse it with empathy, it can’t survive,” ― Brene Brown.

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You must never give in to despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength. ― Uncle Iroh, Avatar: The Last Airbender

“The more we judge people, the less time we have to love them”

― Mother Teresa

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“The highest form of intelligence is the ability to observe ourselves without judging” — Jiddu Krishnamurti

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom”

— Aristotle

“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.”

― C. S. Lewis

Until you make the subconscious conscious, It will rule your life and you will call it fate.

― Carl Jung

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“Are you paralyzed with fear? That’s a good sign. Fear is good. Like self-doubt, fear is an indicator. Fear tells us what we have to do. Remember one rule of thumb: the more scared we are of a work or calling, the more sure we can be that we have to do it.” ― Steven Pressfield, The War of Art

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“Watch your thoughts for they become words. Watch your words for they become actions. Watch your actions for they become habits. Watch your habits for they become character. Watch your character for it becomes your destiny. ― Lao Tzu

“I remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So if I’m going to learn, I must do it by listening.”

― Larry King

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“To truly listen means to transcend your autobiography, to get out of your own frame of reference, out of your own value system, out of your own history and judging tendencies, and to get deeply into the frame of reference or viewpoint of another person. This is called empathic listening. It is a very, very rare skill. But it is more than a skill. Much more.” — Stephen R. Covey, The 8th Habit

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There are two paths in life: Should and Must. We arrive at this crossroads over and over again. And each time, we get to choose. Should is how others want us to show up in the world - how we’re supposed to think, what we ought to say, what we should or shouldn’t do. It’s the vast array of expectations that others layer upon us. When we choose Should the journey is smooth, the risk is small. Must is different-there aren’t options and we don’t have a choice. Must is who we are, what we believe, and what we do when we are alone with our truest, most authentic self. It’s our instincts, our cravings and longings, the things places and ideas we burn for, the intuition that swells up from somewhere deep inside of us. Must is what happens when we stop conforming to other people’s ideals and start connecting to our own. Because when we choose Must, we are no longer looking for inspiration out there. Instead, we are listening to our calling from within. — Elle Luna

Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.

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“Inner peace is accomplished by understanding and accepting the inevitable contradictions of life-the pain and pleasure, success and failure, joy and sorrow, births and deaths. Problems can teach us to be gracious, humble, and patient.” — Richard Carlson, Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

Life is like a box of matches. To take it too seriously is ridiculous. To take it not seriously enough is dangerous.

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You can stop a vicious cycle in one instant. Just resist that “do something” feeling and live with the cortisol. This is difficult to do because cortisol screams for your attention. It didn’t evolve for you to sit around and accept it, after all. But you can build the skill of doing nothing during a cortisol alert, even as it begs you to make it go away by doing something. Waiting gives your brain a chance to activate an alternative. A virtuous circle starts in that moment. — Dr Loretta Graziano Breuning

“This is how you are” only means “this is how you are in relation to who I am.

— Douglas Stone

“If our thinking is bogged down by distorted symbolic meanings, illogical reasoning and erroneous interpretations, we become, in truth, blind and deaf.”

— Aaron Temkin Beck

Our life is what our thoughts make it.

— Marcus Aurelius, Meditation

The important thing is not what one is born with, but what use one makes of that equipment.

— Alfred Adler

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.

— Winston Churchill

“Any idea that is held in the mind that is either feared or revered will, begin at once to clothe itself in the most convenient and appropriate physical forms available.”
“If we want the rewards of being loved we have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of being known,”

— Tim Kreider

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“To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. When you are born a lotus flower, be a beautiful lotus flower, don’t try to be a magnolia flower. If you crave acceptance and recognition and try to change yourself to fit what other people want you to be, you will suffer all your life. True happiness and true power lie in understanding yourself, accepting yourself, having confidence in yourself.” ― Nhat Hanh

“We accept the love we think we deserve.”

— The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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I am beautiful I am loved I am safe I am free I don’t need to be like them, I need to be like me

“Comparison is the thief of joy.”

— Theodore Roosevelt

“Our credentials are in our spirit”

— HINDZ

I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.

— C.G. Jung

Never underestimate the power of being seen.

— Brené Brown

There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you.

— Maya Angelou

“Develop an interest in life as you see it; the people, things, literature, music - the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself.”

— Henry Miller

“Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.”

— attributed to Albert Einstein

“That truth is the searching. That beauty is the becoming.”

— Alok

“If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more”.

— Erica Jong

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He aha te mea nui o te ao
He tangata, he tangata, he tangata ~ What is the most important thing in the world? It is the people, it is the people, it is the people

“Experience is not what happens to you, it is what you do with what happens to you”.

— Aldous Huxley

“A victim mentality is the ingenious cloak of self-betrayal. The character never develops. The story never ends - an infinite loop of personal hell.”

— J. Mike Fields

“Identity is not a bunch of little cubbyholes stuffed respectively with intellect, race, sex, class, vocation, gender. Identity flows between, over, aspects of a person. identity is a river - a process.”

— Gloria Anzaldúa

“If you are pained by any external thing, it is not the thing that disturbs you but your own judgement about it. And it is in your power to wipe out this judgement now.”

— Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

If you feel like a weirdo, it’s okay because weirdos rule the world.

— Aubrey Plaza

Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. and if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.

— Friedrich Nietzsche

No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.

— Heraclitus

To look at people in capitalist society and conclude that human nature is egoism, is like looking at people in a factory where pollution is destroying their lungs and saying that it is human nature to cough.

— Andrew Collier

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You cannot buy the revolution. You cannot make the revolution. You can only be the revolution. It is in your spirit, or it is nowhere. — Ursula K. Le Guin

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“The harder we try with the conscious will to do something, the less we shall succeed. Proficiency and results come only to those who have learned the paradoxical art of doing and not doing, or combining relaxation with activity.” — Aldous Huxley

“Desiring a positive experience is itself a negative experience; and the acceptance of a negative experience is itself a positive experience.”

— Mark Manson

“The art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge”

— Thomas Berger

“The greatest thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving.”

— Oliver Wendell Holmes

“Self-esteem comes from Integrity; it comes from keeping the promises you make to yourself.”

― Lowell Bennion